{"id":2620,"date":"2025-12-23T14:52:01","date_gmt":"2025-12-23T19:52:01","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/bcsnygroup.com\/group-therapy\/?p=2620"},"modified":"2025-12-29T09:38:43","modified_gmt":"2025-12-29T14:38:43","slug":"from-attachment-wounds-to-secure-connection","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bcsnygroup.com\/group-therapy\/from-attachment-wounds-to-secure-connection\/","title":{"rendered":"From Attachment Wounds to Secure Connection"},"content":{"rendered":"<section class=\"l-section wpb_row us_custom_bbebc9dc height_custom\"><div class=\"l-section-h i-cf\"><div class=\"g-cols vc_row via_grid cols_1-3 laptops-cols_inherit tablets-cols_inherit mobiles-cols_1 valign_top type_default stacking_default\"><div class=\"wpb_column vc_column_container\"><div class=\"vc_column-inner\"><div class=\"w-image us_custom_52c6f4dc align_none\"><div class=\"w-image-h\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"300\" height=\"241\" src=\"https:\/\/bcsnygroup.com\/group-therapy\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/secure-connection-300x241.jpg\" class=\"attachment-medium size-medium\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/bcsnygroup.com\/group-therapy\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/secure-connection-300x241.jpg 300w, https:\/\/bcsnygroup.com\/group-therapy\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/secure-connection-1024x823.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/bcsnygroup.com\/group-therapy\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/secure-connection.jpg 2000w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"wpb_column vc_column_container\"><div class=\"vc_column-inner\"><h3 class=\"w-text\"><span class=\"w-text-h\"><span class=\"w-text-value\">From Attachment Wounds to Secure Connection<\/span><\/span><\/h3><div class=\"wpb_text_column\"><div class=\"wpb_wrapper\"><p>ONLINE SUPPORT GROUP<br \/>Facilitated by: Gabrielle Montalvo-Edwards LCSW<br \/>Thursdays @ 7pm &#8211; Starting 15th January 2026<br \/>Duration: 8 weeks<\/p>\n<p>Group Demographic: Adults 18+ of all genders<\/p>\n<p>The group mission is to equip group members with the tools necessary to navigate the complexities of modern relationships. Our group will provide a safe, therapeutic space where individuals can explore the roots of their attachment patterns and heal from the wounds that hinder connection.<\/p>\n<\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/section><section class=\"l-section wpb_row us_custom_a92bf69e height_custom\"><div class=\"l-section-h i-cf\"><div class=\"g-cols vc_row via_grid cols_3-2 laptops-cols_inherit tablets-cols_inherit mobiles-cols_1 valign_top type_default stacking_default\"><div class=\"wpb_column vc_column_container\"><div class=\"vc_column-inner\"><div class=\"wpb_text_column\"><div class=\"wpb_wrapper\"><p>I&#8217;m dedicated to helping members understand how their unique attachment styles influence relationships with family, friends, and partners. Through shared experience and evidence-based practice, your time in group will aim to break unhealthy cycles of conflict and communication, empowering every member to move toward security, resilience, and authentic connection<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #ff6600;\"><strong>This group is designed for you if:<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>You feel anxious:<\/strong>\u00a0You constantly worry about abandonment, over-give to keep the peace, or feel you are &#8220;too much.&#8221;<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>You feel avoidant:<\/strong>\u00a0You value independence above all else, feel suffocated by intimacy, or shut down when emotions run high.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>You feel stuck:<\/strong>\u00a0You find yourself in &#8220;push-pull&#8221; dynamics or toxic relationships that you can&#8217;t seem to break.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>You are ready for change:<\/strong>\u00a0You want practical skills to ask for what you need and set boundaries without guilt.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"color: #ff6600;\"><strong>What You Will Gain<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>We focus on <strong>actionable reprogramming,\u00a0<\/strong>giving you the tools to change how your brain and body react to connection.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Understanding Your Story:<\/strong>\u00a0Connect your current struggles to early attachment wounds without blame or shame.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Somatic Safety:<\/strong>\u00a0Learn how to soothe your nervous system so you don&#8217;t react out of &#8220;fight, flight, freeze, or fawn.&#8221;<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>New Communication Skills:<\/strong>\u00a0Learn to express your needs and navigate conflict without attacking or collapsing.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Healthy Boundaries:<\/strong>\u00a0Replace people-pleasing or wall-building with boundaries that foster true intimacy.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"color: #ff6600;\"><strong>The Roadmap: Our 8-Week Journey<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong>Phase 1: Safety &amp; Understanding<\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Week 1: Setting the Foundation.<\/strong>\u00a0Creating a safe space and learning how to regulate your nervous system.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Week 2: Your Attachment Story.<\/strong>\u00a0Uncovering the &#8220;core wounds&#8221; and family dynamics that shaped your style.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><strong>Phase 2: The Patterns<\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Week 3: The Anxious Cycle.<\/strong>\u00a0Transforming the fear of abandonment into self-soothing and self-trust.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Week 4: The Avoidant Shield.<\/strong>\u00a0Moving from emotional withdrawal to safe vulnerability.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Week 5: Breaking the Chaos.<\/strong>\u00a0Addressing trauma bonds and the &#8220;push-pull&#8221; of disorganized attachment.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><strong>Phase 3: The Tools for Connection<\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Week 6: Communication That Heals.<\/strong>\u00a0Practical scripts for stating needs and repairing conflict.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Week 7: Building Secure Attachment.<\/strong>\u00a0How to spot &#8220;green flags&#8221; and practice interdependence.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Week 8: Moving Forward.<\/strong>\u00a0creating a resilience plan for your future relationships.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/div><\/div><div class=\"w-separator size_medium\"><\/div><div class=\"wpb_text_column\"><div class=\"wpb_wrapper\"><\/div><\/div><div class=\"wpb_text_column\"><div class=\"wpb_wrapper\"><div class=\"wpforms-container wpforms-container-full\" id=\"wpforms-1503\"><form id=\"wpforms-form-1503\" class=\"wpforms-validate wpforms-form wpforms-ajax-form\" data-formid=\"1503\" method=\"post\" enctype=\"multipart\/form-data\" action=\"\/group-therapy\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2620\" data-token=\"f459a23a63f49d0348c828b375ede88c\"><noscript class=\"wpforms-error-noscript\">Please enable JavaScript in your browser to 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class=\"wpforms-field-label\" for=\"wpforms-1503-field_9\">When is the best time to call you? (between 9am-6pm, Mon-Fri)  <span class=\"wpforms-required-label\">*<\/span><\/label><input type=\"text\" id=\"wpforms-1503-field_9\" class=\"wpforms-field-medium wpforms-field-required\" name=\"wpforms[fields][9]\" required><div class=\"wpforms-field-description\">It will be about a 10 minute intake call, to collect all information needed to confirm suitability for the group.\r\n<\/div><\/div><div id=\"wpforms-1503-field_8-container\" class=\"wpforms-field wpforms-field-text\" data-field-id=\"8\"><label class=\"wpforms-field-label\" for=\"wpforms-1503-field_8\">Insurance Details: Provider \/ Plan \/ Number: <span class=\"wpforms-required-label\">*<\/span><\/label><input type=\"text\" id=\"wpforms-1503-field_8\" class=\"wpforms-field-large wpforms-field-required\" name=\"wpforms[fields][8]\" required><div class=\"wpforms-field-description\">Please state N\/A if self pay.<\/div><\/div><\/div><!-- .wpforms-field-container --><div class=\"wpforms-submit-container\" ><input type=\"hidden\" name=\"wpforms[id]\" value=\"1503\"><input type=\"hidden\" name=\"wpforms[author]\" value=\"1\"><button type=\"submit\" name=\"wpforms[submit]\" id=\"wpforms-submit-1503\" class=\"wpforms-submit\" data-alt-text=\"Sending...\" data-submit-text=\"Submit\" aria-live=\"assertive\" value=\"wpforms-submit\">Submit<\/button><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/bcsnygroup.com\/group-therapy\/wp-content\/plugins\/wpforms\/assets\/images\/submit-spin.svg\" class=\"wpforms-submit-spinner\" style=\"display: none;\" width=\"26\" height=\"26\" alt=\"Loading\"><\/div><\/form><\/div>  <!-- .wpforms-container -->\n<\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"wpb_column vc_column_container us_custom_c70c97eb has_bg_color\"><div class=\"vc_column-inner\"><div class=\"w-separator size_small\"><\/div><div class=\"w-image align_none\"><div class=\"w-image-h\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"200\" height=\"200\" src=\"https:\/\/bcsnygroup.com\/group-therapy\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/Gabrielle-Montalvo-1.jpg\" class=\"attachment-large size-large\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/bcsnygroup.com\/group-therapy\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/Gabrielle-Montalvo-1.jpg 200w, https:\/\/bcsnygroup.com\/group-therapy\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/Gabrielle-Montalvo-1-150x150.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 200px) 100vw, 200px\" \/><\/div><\/div><div class=\"w-separator size_medium\"><\/div><div class=\"wpb_text_column\"><div class=\"wpb_wrapper\"><p>Group facilitated by<br \/>\n<strong>Gabrielle Montalvo-Edwards<\/strong> LCSW<\/p>\n<div class=\"tmm_desc\">\n<p>I take a holistic approach to therapy: assessing clients from a mental, physical, and spiritual perspective and creating a therapeutic plan and environment that integrates all of these areas. I have served various populations from individuals battling cancer, to students struggling with learning disabilities.<\/p>\n<p>In 2017, I became certified in personal training in order to better understand and support the physical aspects of wellness and its influence on mental health. My experience as a social worker and personal trainer have been invaluable resources when working with clients trying to address barriers to change and promoting greater self-acceptance.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m trained in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Motivational Interviewing, and EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing). I also integrate holistic techniques such as meditation, stretch, breath work, grounding, movement, and mindfulness into my therapeutic work with clients.<\/p>\n<p>.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/section>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":2624,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[15],"tags":[39,38,28,37],"class_list":["post-2620","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-support-group","tag-attachment","tag-selfcare","tag-support-group","tag-trauma"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/bcsnygroup.com\/group-therapy\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2620","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/bcsnygroup.com\/group-therapy\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/bcsnygroup.com\/group-therapy\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bcsnygroup.com\/group-therapy\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bcsnygroup.com\/group-therapy\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2620"}],"version-history":[{"count":7,"href":"https:\/\/bcsnygroup.com\/group-therapy\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2620\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2633,"href":"https:\/\/bcsnygroup.com\/group-therapy\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2620\/revisions\/2633"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bcsnygroup.com\/group-therapy\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/2624"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/bcsnygroup.com\/group-therapy\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2620"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bcsnygroup.com\/group-therapy\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2620"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bcsnygroup.com\/group-therapy\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2620"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}