I’m dedicated to helping members understand how their unique attachment styles influence relationships with family, friends, and partners. Through shared experience and evidence-based practice, your time in group will aim to break unhealthy cycles of conflict and communication, empowering every member to move toward security, resilience, and authentic connection
This group is designed for you if:
- You feel anxious: You constantly worry about abandonment, over-give to keep the peace, or feel you are “too much.”
- You feel avoidant: You value independence above all else, feel suffocated by intimacy, or shut down when emotions run high.
- You feel stuck: You find yourself in “push-pull” dynamics or toxic relationships that you can’t seem to break.
- You are ready for change: You want practical skills to ask for what you need and set boundaries without guilt.
What You Will Gain
We focus on actionable reprogramming, giving you the tools to change how your brain and body react to connection.
- Understanding Your Story: Connect your current struggles to early attachment wounds without blame or shame.
- Somatic Safety: Learn how to soothe your nervous system so you don’t react out of “fight, flight, freeze, or fawn.”
- New Communication Skills: Learn to express your needs and navigate conflict without attacking or collapsing.
- Healthy Boundaries: Replace people-pleasing or wall-building with boundaries that foster true intimacy.
The Roadmap: Our 8-Week Journey
Phase 1: Safety & Understanding
- Week 1: Setting the Foundation. Creating a safe space and learning how to regulate your nervous system.
- Week 2: Your Attachment Story. Uncovering the “core wounds” and family dynamics that shaped your style.
Phase 2: The Patterns
- Week 3: The Anxious Cycle. Transforming the fear of abandonment into self-soothing and self-trust.
- Week 4: The Avoidant Shield. Moving from emotional withdrawal to safe vulnerability.
- Week 5: Breaking the Chaos. Addressing trauma bonds and the “push-pull” of disorganized attachment.
Phase 3: The Tools for Connection
- Week 6: Communication That Heals. Practical scripts for stating needs and repairing conflict.
- Week 7: Building Secure Attachment. How to spot “green flags” and practice interdependence.
- Week 8: Moving Forward. creating a resilience plan for your future relationships.