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The future of mental health in the Black community is a critical topic that intersects with issues of racial equity, access to care, and community empowerment.

  1. Increased Awareness and Advocacy
    Cultural Shifts: There is a growing awareness within the Black community about the importance of mental health, challenging long-standing stigmas and cultural barriers. Advocacy efforts by Black mental health professionals, activists, and celebrities are playing a crucial role in normalizing conversations around mental health.
    Community-Led Initiatives: Grassroots organizations and community leaders are increasingly addressing mental health by creating safe spaces for dialogue, education, and support. These initiatives often incorporate culturally relevant practices that resonate with the community.
  2. Improved Access to Care
    Telehealth Expansion: The rise of telehealth, accelerated by the COVID-19 pandemic, has made mental health services more accessible. For the Black community, this could mean greater access to culturally competent therapists and resources, especially in areas where such services are scarce.
    Culturally Competent Care: There is a growing recognition of the need for mental health professionals who understand the unique cultural, historical, and social experiences of Black individuals. Training programs and institutions are beginning to emphasize cultural competence, which could lead to more effective and empathetic care.
  3. Addressing Systemic Barriers
    Policy Changes: Advocacy for policy reforms that address systemic inequalities in healthcare, such as disparities in insurance coverage and the availability of mental health services in underserved communities, is gaining momentum. Future policies may focus on increasing funding for mental health services in Black communities and addressing the social determinants of mental health.
    Economic Empowerment: Economic factors significantly impact mental health. Efforts to address income inequality, unemployment, and housing instability in Black communities can have a positive effect on mental well-being.
  4. Integration of Traditional and Modern Practices
    Holistic Approaches: There is a potential for greater integration of traditional healing practices and modern mental health care. Many in the Black community have historically relied on spirituality, family, and community for emotional support. Integrating these elements into mental health care can create more holistic and culturally sensitive approaches.
    Peer Support Networks: Peer support groups and networks, often facilitated by community organizations or through social media, are becoming increasingly popular. These groups provide a space for individuals to share experiences and coping strategies, fostering a sense of community and belonging.
  5. Youth and Future Generations
    Focus on Youth: Efforts to improve mental health in the Black community are increasingly focusing on younger generations. Schools and youth organizations are starting to prioritize mental health education, which could lead to a future where mental health is more openly discussed and supported from an early age.
    Mentorship and Role Models: The presence of Black mental health professionals and advocates as role models can inspire future generations to pursue careers in mental health, further increasing representation and access.
  6. Technological Innovations
    Mental Health Apps: The development of apps and online platforms tailored to the mental health needs of the Black community is on the rise. These tools can provide culturally relevant resources, coping strategies, and connections to therapists.

The future of mental health in the Black community is shaped by a combination of increased awareness, improved access to culturally competent care, and the integration of traditional and modern practices. Continued advocacy, research, and innovation will be essential in addressing the unique challenges faced by the Black community and ensuring that mental health services are equitable, accessible, and effective.


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Gaslighting is a form of psychological manipulation where a person, often with a narcissistic personality or other manipulative traits, seeks to sow seeds of doubt in a targeted individual or group, making them question their own memory, perception, or sanity. The term originates from the play and film “Gaslight,” where a husband manipulates his wife into doubting her perception of reality.

Key characteristics of gaslighting include:

  1. Denial and Contradiction: The gaslighter denies their own behaviors or actions, even when they are clearly observable, and may contradict the victim’s memories or perceptions.
  2. Twisting and Distorting Information: They selectively present information or events in a way that favors their perspective and undermines the victim’s understanding of the situation.
  3. Blame and Guilt: Gaslighters often blame the victim for misunderstandings or problems, shifting responsibility away from themselves and inducing feelings of guilt or inadequacy in the victim.
  4. Confusion and Misdirection: They may use subtle tactics to confuse the victim, change the subject, or divert attention from their own behaviors by focusing on the victim’s perceived flaws or shortcomings.
  5. Isolation: Gaslighters may isolate the victim from sources of support or validation, making them more dependent on the gaslighter’s version of reality.

Gaslighting can occur in various types of relationships, including personal, professional, or familial settings. Its effects can be profound, leading to anxiety, self-doubt, and a loss of trust in one’s own perceptions. Recognizing gaslighting behavior is crucial for individuals to protect their mental and emotional well-being.

If you suspect you are experiencing gaslighting, seeking support from trusted friends, family members, or a therapist can provide validation and help you regain clarity and confidence in your own reality.


 

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Binge-Eating Disorder (BED) is a serious mental health condition characterized by recurrent episodes of eating large quantities of food, often quickly and to the point of discomfort. It is accompanied by a feeling of loss of control during the binge, followed by distress, guilt, or shame.

Recurrent Episodes of Binge Eating:

  • Eating much more rapidly than normal.
  • Eating until feeling uncomfortably full.
  • Eating large amounts of food when not feeling physically hungry.
  • Eating alone because of feeling embarrassed by how much one is eating.
  • Feeling disgusted with oneself, depressed, or very guilty afterward.

Treatment Options:

  • Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT): The most effective treatment, focusing on changing unhealthy eating behaviors and thoughts.
  • Interpersonal Therapy (IPT): Addresses interpersonal issues contributing to the disorder.
  • Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT): Helps manage emotions and reduce binge-eating episodes.

Lifestyle Changes and Coping Strategies:

  • Encouraging regular physical activity and stress management techniques.
  • Mindful Eating: Paying attention to the eating experience, hunger, and satiety cues.
  • Stress Reduction Techniques: Practicing yoga, meditation, or deep-breathing exercises.
  • Building a Support Network: Involving family and friends in the recovery process.

Understanding and addressing Binge-Eating Disorder involves a comprehensive approach that includes medical, psychological, and nutritional support. Early intervention and ongoing support are crucial for effective management and recovery. Focusing on small, achievable changes rather than drastic diet plans. Join a support group with people in similar situations. 

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Support from friends and family plays a significant role in recovery and well-being for those experiencing mental illness, support that requires understanding and empathy.

Practical Tips and Emotional Guidance

  • Offering Emotional Support
    Listen actively: Provide tips on how to actively listen to your loved one without judgment or interruption.
    Validate their feelings: Acknowledge their emotions and reassure them that it’s okay to feel the way they do.
    Offer encouragement: Provide words of encouragement and support to boost their morale.
  • Educate Yourself
    Take the initiative to educate yourself about your loved one’s specific mental illness.
    Understand symptoms, triggers, treatment options, and available resources.
    Knowledge empowers you to provide more effective support.
  • Encouraging Treatment and Seeking Professional Help
    Encourage your loved one to seek professional help if they haven’t already.
    Offer to assist them in finding a therapist, psychiatrist, or support group.
    Support them throughout their treatment journey, including attending appointments together if appropriate.
  • Setting Boundaries
    Emphasize the importance of setting healthy boundaries while providing support.
    Understand your own limitations and prioritize self-care to avoid burnout.
  • Be Patient and Understanding
    Mental illness can be unpredictable, and recovery takes time.
    Be patient and understanding, and avoid placing pressure on your loved one to “get better” quickly.
  • Encouraging Self-Care
    Encourage your loved one to prioritize self-care activities that promote mental well-being, such as exercise, hobbies, and relaxation techniques.
    Lead by example and engage in self-care practices yourself.
  • Connecting with Support Networks
    Encourage your loved one to connect with support networks, such as support groups or online communities.
    Offer to accompany them to meetings or help them find resources.

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One of the most fulfilling and rewarding part of my life is mentoring mental health care providers, providing guidance and support, playing a vital role in shaping the next generation of mental health professionals and ensuring high-quality care for people and families in need.

  • Sharing Knowledge and Experience: Draw upon your own experiences and expertise in the mental health field to provide guidance and advice to mentees. Share insights, best practices, and lessons learned from your own professional journey.
  • Clinical Supervision: Offer clinical supervision to mentees, providing guidance and oversight as they work with clients or patients. Help them develop their clinical skills, therapeutic techniques, and treatment planning abilities.
  • Professional Development: Support mentees in their professional growth and development. Help them identify areas for improvement and create a plan for continuing education, training, and skill enhancement.
  • Ethical Considerations: Discuss ethical dilemmas and professional standards with mentees, helping them navigate complex ethical issues that may arise in their work with clients. Emphasize the importance of adhering to ethical guidelines and maintaining professional boundaries.
  • Self-Care and Burnout Prevention: Educate mentees about the importance of self-care and burnout prevention in the mental health field. Help them develop strategies for managing stress, maintaining work-life balance, and prioritizing their own well-being.
  • Supervisory Skills: If mentoring individuals who are pursuing careers in clinical supervision themselves, provide guidance on effective supervisory techniques, feedback delivery, and mentorship strategies.
  • Networking and Professional Connections: Help mentees build professional networks and establish connections within the mental health community. Facilitate introductions to colleagues, organizations, and professional associations that can support their career development.
  • Feedback and Reflection: Offer constructive feedback to mentees and encourage self-reflection on their clinical practice, professional growth, and personal development. Create a supportive environment where mentees feel comfortable discussing challenges, mistakes, and areas for improvement.
  • Advocacy and Leadership: Encourage mentees to advocate for the mental health profession and take on leadership roles within the field. Support their efforts to promote mental health awareness, reduce stigma, and advocate for policies that improve access to mental health care.

Nicoletta Pallotta, MD, LCSW-R
Private Practice CEO. Mentor. Women’s Advocate.


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nar·cis·sist
noun:  a person who has an excessive interest in or admiration of themselves.

Common Narcissist Characteristics

  • Inflated Ego.
  • Lack of Empathy.
  • Need for Attention.
  • Repressed Insecurities.
  • Few Boundaries.

A Narcissistic Partner

A Narcissist will often deploy a variety of behaviour patterns such as control, manipulation, and exploitation to ensure that their own relationship needs are met. As the partner you could be the subject of their manipulation and abuse, while they treat everyone else with respect.

Narcissistic partners act as if they are always right, that they know better and that their partner is wrong or incompetent, resulting in their partner feeling angry, trying to defend themselves or identifying with this negative self-image and feeling badly about themselves. A Narcissist will purposefully do things to destroy your happiness and relaxing moments, or to prevent you from doing something as simple as sleep, in order to have control. While being the target of narcissistic abuse is stressful and hurtful, many narcissists are unaware of how their actions impact others. If they are aware that others feel negatively about them or about their choices, they often lack the ability to take responsibility for their actions or see them as wrong.

Narcissists are also drawn to those who can boost their own self-esteem and validate their sense of importance,being associated with someone who is successful or admired can make the narcissist feel more important by proxy.

Gaslighting

There are four primary types of gaslighting behaviors: the straight-up lie, reality manipulation, scapegoating and coercion. Often it’s a combination of these behaviors. Narcissistic Gaslighting may include suggesting you’re “confused,” “mixed up” or “misremembering.” or saying something like, “I have no memory of that” or, “I don’t know what you’re talking about.”

If you think your Partner is Gaslighting you, consider these red flags: a. You are excessively questioning yourself.  b. You’re constantly feeling confused.  c. You’re frequently thinking you must be perceiving things incorrectly. d.  You feel your partner is lying to you about things that are very obvious and expecting you to believe them. Gaslighting can undermine your sense of reality, making it difficult for you to trust your own thoughts and feelings.

But be assured, this is not your fault, and it’s not a healthy relationship.

No matter if it’s a work colleague, a romantic partner, a friend, a sibling, or someone else in your life, let them know that they are Gaslighting you (they may be unaware) and that you won’t stand for that kind of manipulative, emotional abuse. Leaving an abusive relationship with a narcissist is tough, but it is possible as long as you trust your gut and have firm boundaries, and keep reminding yourself why you need to walk away.

 

 

 


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The relationship between teens and social media can be complex. While social media platforms offer opportunities for connection, self-expression, and learning, they also present challenges and potential risks. To foster a healthy relationship with social media, parents, educators, and caregivers can encourage open communication, set clear boundaries and guidelines for social media use, educate teens about online safety and digital literacy, and role model positive online behavior themselves.

It’s essential to approach social media as a tool that can enrich teens’ lives while also being mindful of its potential risks and challenges.

  • Social Connection: Social media provides teens with a platform to connect with friends, family, and peers, regardless of physical distance. It allows them to maintain relationships, share experiences, and communicate in real-time.
  • Self-expression and Identity: Social media platforms offer teens a space to express themselves creatively, share their thoughts and opinions, and explore different aspects of their identity. They can curate their online persona and connect with others who share similar interests and values.
  • Learning and Information Sharing: Social media can be a valuable source of information and learning for teens. They can access educational content, news updates, tutorials, and discussions on various topics of interest.
  • Impact on Mental Health: Excessive use of social media has been linked to various mental health issues among teens, including anxiety, depression, low self-esteem, and body image issues. Comparison with others, cyberbullying, and fear of missing out (FOMO) are some factors that contribute to these negative effects.
  • Online bullying: Social media platforms can be breeding grounds for cyberbullying, harassment, and online conflicts among teens. The anonymity and lack of face-to-face interaction can embolden individuals to engage in harmful behavior.
  • Privacy and Security Concerns: Teens may not always fully understand the privacy settings and potential risks associated with sharing personal information online. They may inadvertently expose themselves to privacy breaches, identity theft, or online predators.
  • Distraction and Time Management: Excessive use of social media can interfere with teens’ academic performance, sleep quality, and real-life interactions. It’s essential for teens to develop healthy habits and boundaries around social media usage.
  • Digital Footprint: Teens need to be aware that their online activities leave a digital footprint that can have long-term consequences. Colleges, employers, and others may scrutinize their social media profiles as part of background checks or evaluations.

If you or your teen is experiencing issues connected to social media or the internet, speaking regularly with a trained therapists could help work through these issues and challenges.

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Is this Menopause! Perimenopause is the transitional phase leading up to menopause when hormonal fluctuations and changes in the menstrual cycle begin to occur.

Here are some of the common early signs of perimenopause:

  • Irregular periods: Menstrual cycles may become shorter or longer, and the flow might be heavier or lighter than usual.
  • Changes in menstrual cycle: You might experience skipped periods or have periods that are closer together.
  • Hot flashes: Sudden waves of heat and redness that often start in the chest or face and can last for a few minutes. These can be accompanied by sweating and sometimes chills.
  • Night sweats: Hot flashes that occur during sleep, leading to excessive sweating and waking up feeling damp.
  • Sleep disturbances: Changes in hormones can impact sleep quality, leading to difficulties falling asleep or staying asleep.
  • Mood changes: Hormonal fluctuations can cause mood swings, irritability, and mild depressive symptoms.
  • Vaginal and urinary changes: You might experience vaginal dryness, discomfort during intercourse, and urinary symptoms like increased frequency or urgency.
  • Changes in sexual desire: Some women notice changes in their libido during perimenopause.
  • Breast tenderness: Hormonal changes can lead to breast tenderness or fullness.
  • Fatigue: Changes in hormone levels can contribute to feelings of tiredness and fatigue.

It’s important to note that perimenopause can start several years before menopause itself.

If you’re experiencing any of these symptoms and you’re in the typical age range for perimenopause (late 30s to early 50s), it’s a good idea to consult a healthcare professional. They can help confirm whether you’re in perimenopause and provide guidance on managing any symptoms you may be experiencing.

Accepting its Menopause

Accepting menopause can be a significant emotional and psychological process. It’s normal to experience a range of feelings as you navigate this life transition. Here are some tips that might help you with accepting and adapting to menopause:

  1. Educate Yourself: Understanding the biological and hormonal changes that come with menopause can help demystify the process and reduce anxiety. Knowing what to expect can make the transition feel less overwhelming.
  2. Open Communication: Talk to friends, family, or support groups about your experiences. Sharing your thoughts and feelings with others who are going through or have gone through menopause can provide comfort and a sense of camaraderie.
  3. Self-Care: Prioritize self-care activities that promote physical and emotional well-being. This can include regular exercise, a balanced diet, meditation, relaxation techniques, and engaging in hobbies you enjoy.
  4. Medical Guidance: Consult a healthcare professional to discuss your symptoms, concerns, and treatment options. They can provide tailored advice and interventions to manage any discomfort you might be experiencing.
  5. Positive Mindset: Focus on the positive aspects of this life phase. Many women find relief from menstrual-related symptoms and enjoy a new sense of freedom from birth control concerns.
  6. Healthy Lifestyle: Maintaining a healthy lifestyle can help ease some menopausal symptoms. This includes staying active, eating a balanced diet rich in fruits, vegetables, and whole grains, and staying hydrated.
  7. Mindfulness and Relaxation: Practices like mindfulness meditation, deep breathing, and yoga can help reduce stress and anxiety associated with menopause.
  8. Wardrobe Adjustments: Menopause can bring about changes in body temperature regulation. Dressing in layers and wearing breathable fabrics can help you manage fluctuations in body heat.
  9. Hormone Replacement Therapy (HRT): For some women, hormone replacement therapy may be a suitable option to manage severe symptoms. Discuss this option with your healthcare provider.
  10. Embrace the Journey: View menopause as a natural phase of life rather than a negative event. Embrace the wisdom and experience that come with age.

Remember that everyone’s experience with menopause is unique, and it’s okay to take time to adjust to the changes. If you find that your feelings are overwhelming or interfering with your daily life, consider seeking support from a mental health professional who can provide guidance and coping strategies.


 

If you need help navigating your current stage of life, we are running a Perimenopause / MenoPause online support group:  bcsnygroup.com/group-therapy/perimenopause-menopause


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Social media use among adolescents has become increasingly prevalent and influential in recent years. Adolescence is a period of significant physical, cognitive, and socio-emotional development, and social media can both positively and negatively impact various aspects of their lives.

Communication and Social Connection: Social media platforms offer adolescents new avenues to connect and communicate with their peers, friends, and even people from diverse backgrounds. It allows them to maintain relationships, share experiences, and express themselves creatively. Social media can help reduce feelings of loneliness and provide a sense of belonging.

Information and Awareness: Adolescents can access a wealth of information through social media, facilitating learning, and awareness on various topics of interest. It can help them stay informed about current events, engage in educational discussions, and explore their passions.

Self-Expression and Identity Formation: Social media provides adolescents with opportunities to express their thoughts, feelings, and identity. They can showcase their talents, share their opinions, and explore different aspects of their personality. However, it’s important to note that social media can also influence self-esteem and body image, potentially leading to comparison and negative self-perception.

Cyberbullying and Online Harassment: Adolescents are vulnerable to cyberbullying and online harassment on social media platforms. Negative interactions, such as spreading rumors, sharing hurtful comments, or posting inappropriate content, can significantly impact their mental health and well-being. Parents, educators, and platforms should work together to address and prevent cyberbullying.

Mental Health Impact: Excessive social media use has been associated with mental health concerns in some adolescents. It can contribute to feelings of anxiety, depression, loneliness, and poor sleep quality. Setting healthy boundaries and promoting a balanced lifestyle, including offline activities and face-to-face interactions, are crucial.

Privacy and Online Safety: Adolescents need guidance in understanding the importance of privacy and online safety. They should be encouraged to set appropriate privacy settings, avoid sharing personal information with strangers, and report any suspicious or abusive behavior. Parents and caregivers play a vital role in educating adolescents about online safety measures.

Time Management and Distraction: Spending excessive time on social media can lead to distraction from academic responsibilities, hobbies, and other essential activities. It’s important for adolescents to develop healthy habits and time management skills, ensuring they prioritize their responsibilities and maintain a balanced lifestyle.

To navigate the potential challenges associated with social media use, open communication between adolescents, parents, educators, and mental health professionals is crucial. Providing guidance, establishing boundaries, and fostering digital literacy can help adolescents maximize the benefits of social media while mitigating the potential risks.

 

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It is likely too hard to tell if your mental health indirectly caused weight gain, or weight gain affects your mental health.

Obesity can have a significant impact on a person’s mental wellbeing, adults with excess weight have a much higher risk of developing depression compared to people that do not struggle with their weight. Below is a look at how obesity can affect mental health and vice versa:

  1. Low self-esteem: Obesity is often associated with societal stigma, body shaming, and negative stereotypes. People with weight issues may experience low self-esteem and poor body image, which can lead to feelings of shame, guilt, and self-blame. This negative self-perception can impact overall mental well-being.
  2. Depression and anxiety: Obesity has been linked to higher rates of depression and anxiety. The social isolation, discrimination, and negative body image associated with obesity can contribute to these mental health conditions. Additionally, hormonal imbalances and inflammation associated with obesity may directly affect brain chemistry and contribute to the development of these disorders.
  3. Eating disorders: While obesity and eating disorders may seem contradictory, they can be interconnected. Some individuals with obesity may develop binge eating disorder, which involves consuming large amounts of food in a short period and feeling a loss of control. This can further contribute to weight gain and negatively impact mental health.
  4. Poor quality of life: Obesity can limit physical mobility and decrease overall quality of life. Difficulties in performing daily activities, such as exercise or even simple tasks, can lead to frustration, decreased self-worth, and feelings of helplessness, which can affect mental well-being.
  5. Social withdrawal and isolation: People with obesity may face discrimination and social stigma, which can lead to social withdrawal and isolation. This lack of social support and meaningful connections can contribute to feelings of loneliness, depression, and anxiety.
  6. Cognitive function: Some research suggests that obesity may have negative effects on cognitive function and increase the risk of conditions like dementia and Alzheimer’s disease. This can further impact mental health by causing cognitive decline and emotional distress.

It is important to note that the relationship between obesity and mental health is complex, and individual experiences may vary. Seeking professional help from healthcare providers, such as therapists, counselors, or registered dietitians, can be beneficial in addressing both physical and mental health concerns associated with obesity.


 

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