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The start of a new year is often viewed as a time for fresh beginnings, resolutions, and goal-setting. While physical health and career aspirations often dominate our plans, prioritizing mental health is just as essential for achieving a balanced and fulfilling life.

Here’s how you can make your mental well-being a cornerstone of your New Year’s resolutions.

Reflect on the Past Year
Take some time to pause and reflect. Acknowledge the highs and lows of the past year with compassion. What were your proudest moments? What challenges did you overcome? Journaling can be a powerful tool to process emotions and clarify what you want to carry forward or leave behind.

Set Intentions, Not Just Goals
Traditional resolutions can feel rigid and pressure-filled. Instead, consider setting intentions that focus on how you want to feel or grow. For example, instead of “I will exercise five times a week,” try “I will nurture my body and mind through regular movement.” Intentions are more forgiving and focus on the journey rather than perfection.

Prioritize Self-Compassion
Life is unpredictable, and there will be moments when things don’t go as planned. Practice self-compassion by treating yourself with kindness, especially when faced with setbacks. Remind yourself that growth is not linear, and imperfections are part of being human.

Cultivate Daily Habits
Mental health thrives on consistency. Small, sustainable habits like practicing gratitude, mindfulness, or simply taking a few minutes each day to breathe deeply can make a big difference over time. Consider using apps or journals to track your progress and celebrate small wins.

Reconnect with Your Support System
Strong relationships are foundational for mental health. Reach out to loved ones, rebuild connections that may have faded, and lean on your support system when needed. Remember, asking for help is a sign of strength, not weakness.

Celebrate Progress
Lastly, don’t forget to celebrate your efforts, no matter how small they seem. Progress is progress, and every step you take toward mental wellness is worth acknowledging. Be proud of the work you’re doing to care for yourself.

If you’re struggling, know that you don’t have to navigate it alone. Therapy or counseling can provide valuable tools and support for managing stress, anxiety, or other mental health challenges. Prioritize seeking help as an act of self-care.  Schedule an Appointment

This New Year, give yourself permission to grow, learn, and heal. Mental health is a journey, not a destination, and every day is an opportunity to renew your commitment to self-care. With patience, intentionality, and compassion, you can create a year filled with greater peace and resilience.

Here’s to a year of thriving, one mindful step at a time!


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Practicing empathy and compassion is fundamental for building meaningful relationships, promoting understanding, and creating a more harmonious world. Here’s how you can actively cultivate these qualities:

1. Listen Actively

  • Empathy starts with truly hearing others. Pay attention not just to the words they say but to their emotions and body language. Listening without interrupting or thinking about your response allows you to understand their perspective better.

2. Validate Feelings

  • Acknowledge the emotions of others without judgment. Saying things like “I can see that you’re feeling upset” or “That must have been really hard for you” shows that you understand and respect their emotional experience.

3. Put Yourself in Their Shoes

  • Try to imagine how someone else is feeling or why they may be reacting a certain way. Ask yourself, “How would I feel in this situation?” This mental exercise fosters compassion as it helps you relate to their struggles or joys.

4. Ask Open-Ended Questions

  • Instead of making assumptions, ask questions that encourage the other person to share more. For example, “How did that situation make you feel?” or “Can you tell me more about what happened?”

5. Be Present

  • Practice mindfulness by being fully present during interactions with others. Avoid distractions, whether they’re from your phone or your mind, and focus on the person in front of you. This presence shows that you value and care about their experience.

6. Practice Self-Compassion

  • Being kind to yourself is an important step toward extending the same kindness to others. Treat yourself with the same empathy and compassion that you would offer a friend going through a tough time.

7. Offer Support

  • Compassion often leads to action. When someone is going through a difficult time, think of ways you can help. This could be through words of encouragement, physical help, or simply being there as a supportive presence.

8. Suspend Judgment

  • Practice non-judgmental thinking by recognizing that everyone is on their own journey, with their own set of experiences that shape their behavior and emotions. Try to understand others before jumping to conclusions or judgments.

9. Be Kind in Small Ways

  • Small acts of kindness can make a big difference. Offering a smile, holding the door open, or giving someone a compliment can create moments of human connection and show that you care.

10. Reflect on Your Own Emotions

  • Being in touch with your own feelings makes it easier to recognize and respond to the emotions of others. Journaling or talking about your feelings with someone you trust can help enhance your emotional intelligence, making empathy and compassion more natural responses.

By making a conscious effort to be empathetic and compassionate, you not only help others feel seen and understood, but you also enrich your own life with deeper, more authentic connections.


 

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Gaslighting is a form of psychological manipulation where a person, often with a narcissistic personality or other manipulative traits, seeks to sow seeds of doubt in a targeted individual or group, making them question their own memory, perception, or sanity. The term originates from the play and film “Gaslight,” where a husband manipulates his wife into doubting her perception of reality.

Key characteristics of gaslighting include:

  1. Denial and Contradiction: The gaslighter denies their own behaviors or actions, even when they are clearly observable, and may contradict the victim’s memories or perceptions.
  2. Twisting and Distorting Information: They selectively present information or events in a way that favors their perspective and undermines the victim’s understanding of the situation.
  3. Blame and Guilt: Gaslighters often blame the victim for misunderstandings or problems, shifting responsibility away from themselves and inducing feelings of guilt or inadequacy in the victim.
  4. Confusion and Misdirection: They may use subtle tactics to confuse the victim, change the subject, or divert attention from their own behaviors by focusing on the victim’s perceived flaws or shortcomings.
  5. Isolation: Gaslighters may isolate the victim from sources of support or validation, making them more dependent on the gaslighter’s version of reality.

Gaslighting can occur in various types of relationships, including personal, professional, or familial settings. Its effects can be profound, leading to anxiety, self-doubt, and a loss of trust in one’s own perceptions. Recognizing gaslighting behavior is crucial for individuals to protect their mental and emotional well-being.

If you suspect you are experiencing gaslighting, seeking support from trusted friends, family members, or a therapist can provide validation and help you regain clarity and confidence in your own reality.


 

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Women’s support groups offer numerous benefits, offering a valuable source of support, encouragement, and empowerment for women facing various challenges in their lives.

  • Emotional Support: Support groups provide a safe space for women to express their feelings, share experiences, and receive empathy and understanding from others who can relate to their struggles. This can help reduce feelings of isolation and loneliness.
  • Validation: Being part of a support group can validate women’s experiences, feelings, and concerns. Feeling understood and validated by others can boost self-esteem and confidence.
  • Sharing Knowledge and Information: Women’s support groups often provide opportunities to exchange practical advice, resources, and information about various topics such as health, relationships, parenting, career advancement, and personal development.
  • Building Coping Skills: Through interactions with others in similar situations, women can learn effective coping strategies for dealing with challenges and stressors in their lives.
  • Empowerment: Support groups can empower women by providing them with a sense of belonging, fostering self-awareness, and encouraging them to take control of their lives and make positive changes.
  • Reducing Stigma and Shame: Discussing sensitive issues in a supportive environment can help reduce the stigma and shame often associated with topics such as mental health, addiction, abuse, and other personal struggles.
  • Social Connection: Support groups offer opportunities for women to develop meaningful relationships and friendships with others who share similar experiences and interests. These connections can provide a sense of belonging and community.
  • Role Modeling and Inspiration: Seeing other women overcome challenges and achieve personal growth within the support group can serve as inspiration and motivation for members to work towards their own goals.
  • Accountability: Support groups can provide accountability and encouragement for members to follow through with their goals and commitments, whether it’s related to self-care, personal development, or making positive lifestyle changes.
  • Improved Mental Health: Research has shown that participation in support groups can lead to improvements in mental health outcomes such as reduced symptoms of depression, anxiety, and stress.

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Empowerment therapy encourages people to gain the skills and knowledge that will allow them to overcome obstacles in life or a work environment and ultimately, help them develop within themselves or in the society.

Women’s empowerment is a type of therapy that focuses on a women’s sense of self-worth, their ability to determine their own choices, and their right to influence social change for themselves and others. It is a character-building experience in which therapists encourage clients to accept responsibility for their actions.

Our therapists believe that how clients view themselves, and how others treat them, are influenced by their social environment. They honor each woman’s unique experience based on the intersection of her diverse identity.

Personal Empowerment therapy is a process which enables individuals to gain power, authority and influence over themselves, their life or society.


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